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Divorced my husband, almost 5 years later realized the mistake

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You're right, the idea of him starting a new family is hard for me. But, at the time of our divorce, I cared enough to want him happy also. I've never tried to make it hard for him at all. I'm not out for anything except to get this off my chest. I guess maybe from experience to remind people the grass isn't always greener on the other side. When I got a divorce I thought I was all grown up. I thought it was for the right resaons. I didn't want my daughter in an enviroment with fighting and arguing. I've always taken care of my self and my daughter. I just wanted him to grow up and realize he had a family. He had went from his mothers house to mine and never knew what it was to pay bills. I have fault in that also since I always took care of everything. But, as grown up as I thought I was. I realize I had alot to learn about life. My whole point is I wish I knew then. I wish I would have allowed myself to share my life with someone and not push everyone away. But the mistake has been made and after reviewing this, being honest with myself is whats really important and I don't want to hurt anyone else in the process. So the past is the past and I know I need to face my future with my current husband and give him the respect he deserves.

anon, u "care for him enough to want happiness for him" you never thought when u divorced...? from where this care and love came from, or you realised,u were better off than what you have now.
fights and arguments are there Every Marriage,all r not bed of roses;I think u r worried about he is married to young girl and soon going start a family, thats all.

I made the decision for divorce, But our marriage was not perfect by far. But, I wish I could at least give him the explanation I couldn't give him then. At the time of my divorce, I had no emotions. I had lost the three people closest me with in 5 years time. We had a 5% chance of having my daughter, I had medical problems, while I was in surgery he made the choice we could never had anymore children. He knew how I felt about that. I guess at the time I resented him. Now he remarried a girl 12 years younger, (that my daughter says he fights with constantly.) and is going to start a family with her. I moved out of state so I didn't have to face what the future brought. Also, I care for him enough to want happiness for him, as much as I wish things were different, I'd never interfere in his new life.

It's good you realized your mistake. Try to learn from it(them?). Don't blow your current relationship by making the same mistake (mistakes?).

you realised too early.
There is old say women has brain under her knees.its your mistake, plz let him live peacefully.

What do you do when you realize you made a huge mistake? I was with my first husband 13 years. Dated 7 years, married 7 years. I was the one who ask for the divorce, now almost 5 years later I realize I was so wrong. Unfortunately we are both remarried. I know I can't fix what went wrong. But how do I stop the heart-ache when you know your heart belongs to someone and it's not your husband. I don't want a divorce for the second time around. All I've ever wanted was what I felt was best for my daughter. I family and a happy home. I know I am at fault but how do I ease the heart-ache?

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