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I sympathize and empathize with those of you with withholding spouses. My husband of 18 years literally refused to have sex with me, culminating in his refusal to allow me to even touch him (in a non-sexual way.) We were divorced 1 year ago, and he told me that he had been acting out sexually since 4 years into our marriage (we were married 18 years.) I am traumatized, my self-esteem is in the toilet, and I am very angry and hurt. I have also learned, though, that sex addicts can have a pattern of withholding in their marriage, while "acting out" outside their marriage. I guess this was the case with my husband. Anyway, it's a sad situation all the way around. I will be grieving this loss: loss of sex, loss of closeness, loss of self esteem, loss of my confidence in my "womanhood" for a long time. Good luck. If they won't go to counseling, (mind would not) my experience has been there is no hope.

You're not the only ones in this boat. My husband and I had a great sex life for 3 years before we married, now he won't touch me and calls me a nag when I bring the subject up. Yesterday was my birthday and he promised. Gues what? Nothing.


Believe or not, in most cases this thing is subject to life style and food and drinks one ingests.

Try bringing changes in your life style.

ed.

I have been with my husband for nearly four years. I have always been the one to initiate sex. Which annoys me because I like to be dominated not the other way around. It's almost as if he is affraid of me. We got married a year ago, sex very quickly fizzled out and now we no longer have sex. I feel so rejected and frustrated I feel like I don't have a husband I just live with a friend. I tried to tell him how I felt and he just dissmissed it. Now I have said I want a divorce he is trying really hard. I feel so hurt and rejected that I feel numb when he kisses me. I am not physically attracted to him anymore, and I think its beacues he has pushed me away so much. I don't know what to do because I love him so much But I rhink our relationship is dead in the water. I feel I have been pushed to the edge of a cliff and all I can do is look down.

My husband and I were married 6 months ago, and have had sex 4 times. He claims that sex is a waste of time, and I'm beginning to think that that is really what is wrong. At first I thought it was because of me, like there was something wrong with me. But I don't believe that anymore, I think that he truely believes that it is a "waste of time"

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