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I need some help. My husband has been involved with an addiction with drugs, alcohol and lies for years. Everytime that he is caught he states that he will change. I have yet to see it. I found out he still was using, and I asked him to leave. I live in a small town in a rural area with no family and really no friends and I have 3 little ones at home. I have always worked from home as that is what was wanted for the kids. I am not finding out that the little bit that I make will not cover all of the bills and feed all of the kids and animals. I know that my kids need Daddy and all but I have been abused 2x;s in the past and am really afraid that it could happen again as long as the addictions continue. He refuses treatment except for self help. Every conversation that we have turns into a point the finger at the other game and I have had it. He has moved out and I am really having a hard time deciding if divorce is the solution or not. I do not want to say that I want him here for his money but on the other hand I will have to give up everything because of the mistakes that have been made. I do not feel that taking away a family, a home and all of the animals from 3 little ones is going to make life any easier. If I could make enough to support everything here I would do it in a heart beat, however, I know my kids and they would hate me if I went to work and left them at a babysitters all day while I tried to make enough money to pay the bills. CAN ANYONE HELP?

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