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I am 36 years old, I have been married for 13 years but with my husband for 18 years all togeather. Over the years I've struggled with the issue of wanting more sex/intimacy in our marriage. There was always a reason for his lack of enthusiasum. Long days at work, birth control issues, and stress just to name a few of the very valid points he made. But none of these points seemed to be valid for the last 10 years of our marriage. We've both had affairs, my reasons were because of the lack of affection, and the need to validate my own insecurities. His was because I hurt him, and he was searching for attention, I guess the beging for affection wasn't the kind of attention he was looking for. We always stayed togeather through all the hardships.

Now I'm 36 years old, four kids and a mortgage. I'm not getting any younger or richer financially, and I'm still lonely. I don't know how many years to stick around with the man I love. Even after leaving home, then asking him to leave, then resigning to just dealing with the lack of luster in my marriage, and crying myself to sleep he still doesn't reach out for me. When is enough, enough, how long do you wait for someone your heart thought was your night in shining armor(in more ways then one)?

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