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Paul Verghese, why there r not girls in kerala, i heard there more girls than men in kerala..

DEAR
I AM A 29 YEARS OLD MAN, I WANT MARRIAGE, MY REGION IS CHRISTIAN PLEASE EMAIL ME
babyvarghese2001@yahoo.com

George it is yoru life and your have to decide, and thats her life too, and she has right to choose it, follow u or not. talk to her, and put a fullstop, two weals of a cart cann`t go to sides at once.
best of luck,god will guide u to overcome your problems.

Hi iam the boy of 29years of age i had get married since 1999 but not biblical she was my girl friend and we had just decided to live together and we are blessed with one kid of four years.God called me to serve him on January 2001 but my wife refused to join me and that discouraged me to carry on with serving my lord Jesus.I am now wanted to return back to jesus but she disagree to follow me, what can i do, m i allowed get marry to another woman and divorce her for she is not even respecting me as her husband?

hi i am pramod, 34 yrs old divorcee since from past 4 yrs. At present i am working as work-director(Med.Hskpg.Unit-) in Saudi-Arabbia.i miss my only son very much who is no longer staying with me. i need a good friend who can really understand my feelings & can guide me for future.

Be stronger. Instead of seeking temporary friends be your own friend and try helping others in your own situation as that will help you a great deal.

Next try to resolve your past marriage issues, make it all clear and once you are all set and done, look for another partner.

Do not be sad and lonely. Get out and get going.

editor

I am a thirty-three year old Kenyan lady ,I was involved in a cohabitation marriage for 8 years which resulted in two beautiful children. My husband recently had an affair that led to me being thrown out of my matrimonial home. I have gone through a lot of hurt and pain but managed to forgive him. I now seek a God fearing White man for a lifelong marriage partner.Am trusting in God to give me the right man at the right time

I'm just low. I've struggled to stay married,
drifted toward another woman (who was a friend,
and the end result was I lost her friendship), and
returned to my marriage, and worked on it with
counseling. Still, I feel I stayed with the
marriage because of my children. And yet, this
past summer I've overcommitted to my job (I'm a
minister) and to community projects (I'm a
musician), and have neglected my children. My
oldest is off to college and I've been so tied up
with other things that I've not spent the time I
wanted to spend with her. My middle child is
looking at colleges and I almost never see her.
The worst is my youngest, my son, who has
struggled finding something he wants and fell in
love with baseball. BUT, because I was so tied
up, I didn't get him signed up for baseball for
the fall. Sometimes I want out of my marriage,
but cannot bear to lose my connection with my
kids. I have gifts to give my church as a
preacher and musician but I'm weighed down with
obligation. My wife is also a minister in the
church. Do I re-connect with her, what do I do
for my children, how do I get out fro

I am a lady aged 22 I've been hurt before in a relationship I thought would lead in to mariage but alas it wasn't the case. Am scared of falling in love but I believe that God is going to bless me with a Man (Husband) who will be there for me more than I've ever dreamnt. If there is a male friend out there would be of interest to be just my friend. Please get in touch.

i need marriage i am 30 years old, a footballer by proffession, my email contact is abelham2002@yahoo.fr

Hello, I have been a widowed father of two children for 3 1/2 years. My wife (of 7 years) past in an unexpected way. While she was giving birth to my youngest angel, complications arose and she was called home to our Lord. Meanwhile, I was left with the tremendous responsibility (and glorious blessing!) of taking these children (my daughter then 1 1/2 and my newborn son) and raising them in the way their mother would have wanted. This was very hard for me because before she passed my main focus was not on being a father, yet a provider. I left the house early and got home just in time to kiss my daughter good night. So I had no experience in being a parent or even knowing where to start.

I had quit my job for 3 months and surrounded my self with books and diapers and videos. Sounds smart, Right? No way every parenting book, video and class all have different ideas. I went to my pastor and he told me that all anybody can do is give you ideas on how they do things, that it was up to me to form patterns, guidelines and expectations of my own. This was very difficult and I can attest that 3 1/2 years later things are ever changing and so my angels. It has gotten easier, but not easy.

All I can say that for every nightmare, headache, heartbreak, skinned Knee, and every other things that happens within our little family, I will forever know that I have been given a very special blessing and assignment. And, as I continue to guide my angels through their wonderful lives I hope my optimism and love for life will find a place forever in every thing they do.

I AM A 36yrs.old,I am the mother of three kids,one son and two girls.I have been a widow for 8 months.I feel like I will never get over this.I have no one to talk to,I feel no one understand what I'm going through,everyday it takes all I have just to breathe and get out of bed.I thank god for my children because if I did not have them I don't think I would make it,so if anyone can relate I could use your words of courage.

Darla dear friend

This world is busy as you can see specially when we need a friend people get busier and more so when one is helpless.

Most people can never understand the loss of other unless they go through similar loss.

My suggestion is that you have to accept the realities as they are and present and start a new life from now on. Past is gone. Nobody can fulfill the tragic losses yet we can always find new people who can inject fresh breath into life.

Do not expect nor seek any sympathy just face life as it comes by. In your spare or free time you can help other people who may be in your similar situation and this can give you sense of fulfillment and you will feel that you are not the only one going thru a lonely time.

Write on this site, get involved with your children locally in your city with more activities and focus on future. Things will soon brighten up and you will flow with life energy.

Remember that you are never lonely.

Editor

Praise God, am a born again widowed christian with five kids.That is three girls and two boys.My first born is twenty years and the last born is five years old.Am trusting God for a born a gain christian from USA or UK man not over fifty years old.
Am Kenyan based in the city of Nairobi working with an oil company.
As at now, am aged 46 and with alot of hopes that God is going to give me the desire of my heart.

Hi! I am 39 years old mother of six years old boy,
I lost my husband few months ago. Untill now
I couldn't believed his gone. It is very dificult
for me, to accept the truth. Thats why, I need
some friend to talk,or maybe thesame experience as
myself. I need some advice to some bodies had
experience,everyone are welcome to be my friend.
Thank you..

Hi, I'm a widow.Got a grown up kid. I'm 37 looking for a friend to talk when I,m feeling lonely.I would like someone from Malaysia

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hi this is prabhat from india and want a american gal for marry bse i want to learn to america what is an indian culture.
psl contact girls who r below 24 years age and like a true indian lover.